THE NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY
The infant woman in the bed had just given birth to her first child, a tiny little girl who was breech. A tough birth. - But oh, there's another one,...
The infant woman in the bed had just given birth to her first child, a tiny little girl who was breech.
A tough birth.
- But oh, there's another one, shouted the midwife!
- The first thing I hear when I'm born is a whooping NOOOOOOO!!!!!! Not another one!!
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Uranus and Pluto and Saturn and all the other planets were messing around at the exact second I was born.
Little did I know then that this was exactly how it would turn out. YES to my sister and NO to me, the twin sister.
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My mother had a narcissistic personality.
And since she never wanted to be my mother, I never got to know her either.
But I started charting her life with the help of her older sister 20 years ago.
Much to understand how you can opt out of one child but love two others.
We are three siblings with diametrically opposite experiences of our upbringing.
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In all my years I have been easy prey for narcissistic personalities.
My interest and commitment to people is a perfect place for someone who loves himself and wants to be in the center.
But when I started questioning or even punctured these "friends" and employees and the spotlight on them went out, then I almost had to end my life.
A narcissist will use any weapon to stay in the spotlight.
Nowadays, I could write a school book about this fascinating and terrifying personality.
The worst part is that the narcissist's loved ones are co-dependent on the n-person's whims, tantrums, accusations, tears and medical history.
So those who could really give the n-person tools to feel better, would never in life dare.
Then the weapons come out and you have to be lucky if you survive.
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As you understand, a few n people have come my way as an employer.
One person even started a group a couple of years ago on Facebook for members who have been fired at some point for misbehaving and/or bullying their peers with us.
Excluding n-personalities. They hated each other at work but came together to destroy me as a business owner.
The narcissistic personality goes to great lengths to get revenge.
That is not the n-person's fault. It's everyone else's fault. Cont. follows later.
m. ♥️
A tough birth.
- But oh, there's another one, shouted the midwife!
- The first thing I hear when I'm born is a whooping NOOOOOOO!!!!!! Not another one!!
.
Uranus and Pluto and Saturn and all the other planets were messing around at the exact second I was born.
Little did I know then that this was exactly how it would turn out. YES to my sister and NO to me, the twin sister.
.
My mother had a narcissistic personality.
And since she never wanted to be my mother, I never got to know her either.
But I started charting her life with the help of her older sister 20 years ago.
Much to understand how you can opt out of one child but love two others.
We are three siblings with diametrically opposite experiences of our upbringing.
.
In all my years I have been easy prey for narcissistic personalities.
My interest and commitment to people is a perfect place for someone who loves himself and wants to be in the center.
But when I started questioning or even punctured these "friends" and employees and the spotlight on them went out, then I almost had to end my life.
A narcissist will use any weapon to stay in the spotlight.
Nowadays, I could write a school book about this fascinating and terrifying personality.
The worst part is that the narcissist's loved ones are co-dependent on the n-person's whims, tantrums, accusations, tears and medical history.
So those who could really give the n-person tools to feel better, would never in life dare.
Then the weapons come out and you have to be lucky if you survive.
.
As you understand, a few n people have come my way as an employer.
One person even started a group a couple of years ago on Facebook for members who have been fired at some point for misbehaving and/or bullying their peers with us.
Excluding n-personalities. They hated each other at work but came together to destroy me as a business owner.
The narcissistic personality goes to great lengths to get revenge.
That is not the n-person's fault. It's everyone else's fault. Cont. follows later.
m. ♥️